As I mentioned yesterday, perhaps I'm in a midlife crisis. I've been reading several articles and blogs: The Midlife Crisis , 10 Signs , and Is it Real? to name a few. So I've decided, I am in a crisis and it is in the middle of my life. But I'm not going to buy anything elaborate --- except maybe that trip to Ireland I'm planning this year. I've been overly stressed and overwhelmed. I've been worried about my health and well being and I do feel inadequate in both my family and professional life though and that bothers me. Nothing really has changed except my perception. At least that's what I keep telling myself. It's all me and how I look at things. And then I don't believe myself --- which causes a crisis! UGH!
Giving and receiving compliments are two of the best ways to feel good. A week ago, I changed my hairstyle and the compliments just keep coming. Sometimes, I think to myself; "Wow, my hair must have really looked bad, that it looks so good now." But most of the time, I can take a good compliment. What makes a compliment good? I read a couple of blogs about the topic and liked this one, by Ty Bennett: How to Give a Compliment the best. I like the GPS reference. (Genuine, Personal, Specific) I hope it helps me to remember that giving a compliment means I'm paying attention. Receiving a compliment, means someone is paying attention to me. Life is hard enough to not have people notice. Life is easier, when you notice other people. It gets the focus off of yourself and your troubles. It helps to develop empathy for family or community members who are having their own issues. Remember, God put all of the people here...
It's family movie night at our house. We just finished watching Earth to ECHO , a movie none of us had seen before. I liked it. It was Sandlot ish... about a group of childhood friends, solving a problem and becoming better friends because of it. It also reminded me of the Close Encounters of the 3rd Kind, Flight of the Navigator , or ET as the plot envolved children and space creatures or aliens. Next up is Big Hero 6 which we saw in the movie theatre and I wrote about in November. I hope I can stay awake til the end. After that, they may watch The Book of Life but I'm sure I'll be asleep by then. I love movie nightA
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